Sufficient is rarely sufficient
On this technology, it's folks’s intuition to really feel entitled to objects or experiences, and folks anticipate to be handled a sure method as a result of they really feel like they deserve it. Nowadays it is pure to need every part we will not have — youngsters find yourself getting all of the electronics they need as a result of it’s a lot simpler for folks to entertain their children by giving them a cellphone or a pill than to hearken to them cry and whine. We need to slot in and be unbiased, so it "just makes sense" to get costly smartphones so we are able to talk extra simply within the fashionable world.
Once we develop up and enter the actual world, we're hit with a tradition shock — as a result of out of the blue not all people goes to deal with us with the identical degree of respect or give us the alternatives we consider we deserve. Nobody goes to only give us straight A’s with out doing the work, we're going to should assist ourselves with out the assistance of fogeys who can purchase us every part. We notice that it is exhausting work to get a job, that it is not really easy to pay for issues or feed ourselves.
Even in the case of love — via heartbreak and relationship challenges we be taught that we cannot all the time be with the folks we need to be with. And the folks we miss will not all the time miss us again, or come again down the road to be with us.
How can we cope with wanting what we will not have? Not every part can be served to us on a silver platter, so now we have to be keen to place within the work in actual life. We have to learn to cope with disappointment.
So should you ever end up eager for one thing, use these quotes about wanting what you possibly can't have that can assist you notice that though you might have considered trying all of it, you possibly can't have all of it, on a regular basis.
“When you can’t have what you want, it’s time to start wanting what you have.” — Kathleen A Sutton
“Just because I don’t talk to you, it doesn’t mean I still don’t think about you. I’m just distancing myself because I know I can’t have YOU.” — Unknown
“Sometimes someone comes into your life that changes everything. Raises the standards, makes you laugh and makes you feel like you. There is something about him that you can’t put into words and even though you’re not with him, you don’t want to let him go.” — Unknown
“Sometimes, you just can’t get what you want, but it doesn’t mean that you can never have it. Everything takes place at the right time.” — Unknown
“You can close your eyes to things you don’t want to see but you can’t close your heart to things you don’t want to feel.” — Unknown
“…it’s all too much and not enough at the same time.” — Jack Kerouac
“Admit it, you want someone you can’t have.” — Unknown
“I just want to make you happy. Because you’re the reason that I’m so happy.” — Unknown
“Some of the best moments in life are the ones you can’t tell anyone about.” — Unknown
“You can have anything you want in life, you just can’t have everything you want.” — Unknown
“Baby, love yourself like you’re not waiting for someone else to do it.” — Unknown
“Can’t deny that I want you, but I’ll lie if I have to.” — Unknown
“The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can’t have them.” — Unknown
“Every thought is a battle, every breath is a war, and I don’t think I’m winning anymore.” — Unknown
“My heart tells me this is the best and greatest feeling I have ever had, but my mind knows the difference between wanting what you can’t have and wanting what you shouldn’t want. And I shouldn’t want you.” — Unknown
“If he misses you, he’ll call. If he wants you, he’ll say it. If he cares, he’ll show it. And if not, he can’t be worth your time.” — Unknown
“I want to show him that he has not been loved before. I want him to feel, with one kiss, how I can make love to his soul for eternity.” — Unknown
“Desire leaves us heartbroken; it wears us out. But as tough as wanting something can be, the ones who suffer the most are those who don’t know what they want.” – Unknown
“Having a sister is like having a best friend you can’t get rid of. You know whatever you do, they’ll still be there.” — Unknown
“You’ll never be too much for someone who can’t get enough of you.” — Unknown
“Take life day by day and be grateful for the little things don’t get caught up in what you can’t control, accept it and make the best of it.” — Unknown
“If every time I thought of you, a star fell, well, the sky would be empty.” — Unknown
“In an endless garden of flowers, I will always pick you.” — A.J. Lawless
“Even though I miss you right now, know that you will come back to me.” — Unknown
“Sometimes I sit alone under the stars and think of the galaxies inside my heart and truly wonder if anyone will ever want to make sense of all that I am.” — Unknown
“Too often, the thing you want most is the one thing you can’t have. Desire leaves us heartbroken; it wears us out. Desire can wreck your life. But as tough as wanting something can be, the people who suffer the most are those who don’t know what they want.” — Unknown
“You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you might find, you get what you need.” — The Rolling Stones
“You may be rich, but there is one thing you can’t afford – that is, if you are a good sort – you can’t afford to spend money on your own luxuries while there are people around you wanting the necessities of life.” — Robert Baden-Powell
“Something is wanting, and something must be done, or we shall be involved in all the horror of failure, and civil war without a prospect of its termination.” — Henry Knox
“Wanting something is not enough. You must hunger for it. Your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order to overcome the obstacles that will invariably come your way.” — Les Brown
“I’m considered wise, and sometimes I see myself as knowing. Most of the time, I see myself as wanting to know. And I see myself as a very interested person. I’ve never been bored in my life.” — Maya Angelou
“It seems like when I was growing up there was more compromise, wanting to work with each other, and I think all of them – all the lawmakers – have hearts to do what’s right, and they all are passionate about it.” — Joel Osteen
“I’m hiding what I’m feeling but I’m tired of holding this inside my head.” — Unknown
“I think we’re just gonna have to be secretly in love with each other and leave it at that.” — Unknown
“I still remember the days I prayed for the thing I have now.” — Unknown
“If you ignore me, I will ignore you. If you don’t start the conversation, we won’t talk. If you don’t put in the effort, why should I?” — Unknown
“Sometimes you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they’ll notice. If they don’t, you know where you stand.” — Unknown
“The most wanted of all days is one without laughter.” — E.E. Cummings
“I never had a role model. I ended up wanting to be the best version of myself.” — Kubra Sait
“Honest feelings and bad timing make the most painful combination.” — Unknown
Hayley Small is a author who focuses on popular culture, faith and relationship subjects.